Sunday, 26 September 2021

DAUGHTERS ARE A BLESSING

 

This post is a dedication from a daughter to all the daughters, to let you all know, that you are precious.


Daughters Are A Blessing


Daughters, the most beauteous creation of god, and god created you because he wanted humans to believe in miracles and witness the miracle on earth in front of their eyes in the form of human as daughters, the most precious ones. 

You are called angels, not just for the sake of being called one, but you truly are an angel in the lives of the people you are in, and your existence is enough to bring a smile on the face of your loved ones.

"Daughters are angels on earth, in the form of humans to perform miracles."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

You are beautiful, because you are you, and don't let anything or anyone on this earth change that for you. I want to redefine the definition of beautiful for you, to let you know that :


You are beautiful, because you are fierce and strong.

You are beautiful, because you are real. 

You are beautiful, because you are brave and powerful. 

You are beautiful, because you are independent. 

You are beautiful, because you are quirky and flawed. 

You are beautiful, because you dare to dream. 

You are beautiful, because you believe in yourself.

You are beautiful, because you value love.

You are beautiful, because you make your dreams come true.

You are beautiful, just the way you are. 


Daughters, the most precious creation and god's greatest blessing in the lives of the parents. To a father, 


She is a mother, when it comes to taking care of him.

She is a friend, when it comes to playing a sport with him.

She is a teacher, when it comes to teaching the nitty gritty of technology to him.

She is working partner, when it comes to handling work with him.


And to a mother,


She becomes a friend, who guides her.

She becomes a parent, when it comes to taking care of her.

She becomes a working partner, when it comes to helping her in work. 

She becomes a teacher, when it comes to teaching her the basics and essentials of technology.

She becomes a mentor, in guiding and motivating her mother to follow her dreams. 


That's how beautiful and loving a daughter is. She leaves no stone unturned when it comes to bring a smile on her parents face, and knowing that she is the reason behind those happy and content faces, makes her the happiest person on earth. 

It's a benediction to the soul of the one's who are blessed with a daughter in their life. Because the myriad love of a daughter for her parents and the love of parents for their daughter is unparalleled, and nothing can ever compare to that.


To all the Dear Daughters,

You are magic. You are life. You are god's child. You are everything a parent aspires from a child and you are irrefutably the most miraculous creation of god, and if you ever have a doubt about that, kindly ask your dad, because you mean the world to him. 

I don't know if you get to hear this often, but I want to tell you all as a daughter, that I am proud of you all, because I know life hasn't been a walk on the cake for you and things haven't been easy and you have been facing challenges throughout your life, but in spite of the onerous circumstances and hardships, you every time came back stronger than ever, and that is what makes you a warrior, who in spite of the predicaments in life, didn't lose hope and kept working hard. 

No matter how many curve balls life throws at you, don't ever question your strength, because you are stronger than you know you are. Even the setbacks couldn't hamper your growth process, because you stood strong and you didn't let them wobble you. The strength that you have within yourself is indubitably the greatest one, and nothing in this world can ever surpass that. 

You were sent on earth to make miracles happen, because god believed in you. So, no matter what comes your way, through every ebb and flow you come across in your life, you don't have to stop believing in yourself, instead follow your dreams and accomplish the goals that you want to attain in life. 

Do what makes you happy, because you deserve every bit of happiness in your life. From what you were to where you are now, has taken every ounce of your breath and blood to build you back into a stronger version of yourself. You deserve happiness in your life, and anything which holds you back from the happiness that you are worthy of, shouldn't be a part of your life anymore. 

Live your life the way you want to, because it is your life and no one else's and you are answerable to no one for living the life the way you want to. You deserve a life brimmed with myriad love, care, happiness, peace, respect and everything that you wish for in your life. 

In this journey of life, don't take yourself for granted and love yourself enough because you owe yourself the love and care and prioritize your feelings over what people think of you, because it's your life and the only person who has the right over your life is you and only you. So, love yourself every single day and respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that makes you compromise with your worth, your values and your self-respect. 

You will often come across people in your life, who will hinder your growth process and will try to  stagger you away from your goals and dreams, that's when you have to, not let the opinion, words and actions of others, deviate you from your goals and dreams and show them, that you can pull out all the stops and move ahead in your life and eventually bring yourself closer to what you want to achieve in life.  

You are a warrior, who has a strong personality with the power and ability to speak for herself and live a life with utmost dignity and honour. And no one can ever shake or break you down, because you are blessed by the almighty. 

"Oh beautiful women, unfold your wings and fly high."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

A virtual hug to all the daughters.

Lots of love

From me to you


( "Betiyan paraya dhan nahi, betiyan mata pita ka maan hoti hai, woh parayi kaise kehla sakti hai, jabki unse zyada apna koi nahi hota, mata pita k liye." )

We live in a society, where few people still call their daughters "paraya dhan". Anyone who thinks, that a daughter is a paraya dhan and her real home is that of her in - laws, is so not the right thing to say and believe in. Because that's not how it is. Our daughters are our pride and not paraya dhan, so kindly stop treating them like one, be it the family that is born in or the family that she will move in after marriage. 

We are all equals and we are entitled to the human rights equally. Every daughter needs to be empowered, because she is entitled to the basic human rights, without any kind of discrimination. She has the right and she is free to choose what is right for her and what is not.


She has the right to speak and a right to have a say in the society. 

She has the right to fulfill her dreams.

She has the right to live a life, the way she wants to live.

She has the right to make her own choices and decisions.

She has the right to be treated equally, because she is entitled to the basic human rights. 

So, let's take a vow to treat every human being equally, irrespective of their gender and wish all the daughters not just a happy but an empowering daughters day and let us all celebrate together the beauty of empowerment. 

I wish all you beautiful daughters a very Happy and Empowering Daughters Day 2021

From a daughter to another.


Here are a few heartfelt messages and wishes that you can send to the beloved daughters to let them know they are precious and thank them for being the most wonderful part of your lives. 


To a daughter who has always stood up for herself, Happy Daughters Day Love. 

Happy Daughters Day to the warrior, who didn't give up, in spite of the ups and downs in life. 

Thank you for adding colors to our life little angel, Happy Daughters Day. 

Happy Daughters Day to the world's best daughter, you are the best daughter one could ask for. 

To the sunshine of our life. Happy Daughters Day. 

Happy Daughters Day to the one I am proud of. 

Happy Daughters Day to our darling princess. Thank you for bringing immense joy to our life.

Happy Daughters Day precious. You are the best thing that has ever happened to us. 

You are born to shine princess. Happy Daughters Day. 

Happy Daughters Day to the most beautiful person I know. 


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Sunday, 19 September 2021

15 QUOTES TO REMEMBER ON LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS


Hello Readers! 

As we all know that love is a part of our life and so are the relationships. And our true assets in life are the relationships and the love and respect, that we have earned in our lives. 


15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships

The life that we are living today, we are all so caught up that we have actually started ignoring the value of love and the loved ones in our lives, and we have started taking love for granted to an extend that, two minutes of quality time, out of love and care, is sometimes what we crave for in a relationship.  

Every relationship, be it any sort of, needs to have a few essential things to let it sustain, grow and flourish. And every individual might have a different say on what they expect from a relationship, but there are a few basic things without which, a relationship cannot prosper. 

I have come up with a few quotations for you all, which will help you understand the basic things without which a relationship is incomplete and cannot blossom.

So, let's get started!


15 QUOTES TO REMEMBER ON LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS


1. "Love doesn't need a voice that speaks. All it needs is a heart that beats."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes



2. "Rise in love, because that's how love exactly is. When in love with the right person, you rise in life as well."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes



3. "The right one's, upgrade you and the wrong one's, degrade you. Always remember this."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


4. "Some people come into your life, just to teach you, what love is not. And when that happens, I hope you know when to walk away."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes 

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


5. "Sometimes it's the silence that speaks a thousand words."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


6. "If they try to break you down, show them what strong is."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


7. "The right people will listen and understand you differently."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes 

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


8. "If it doesn't brings you happiness and peace, then you probably are at the wrong place or with the wrong person."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


9. "Two people won't be together, if they are meant to be. They will be together, if they want to be."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes 

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


10. "It is impossible for you to love someone and not respect them. If you don't respect them, it's obvious that you don't love them either."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes 

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


11. "It's not about you or me. It's not about he or she. It's about equality." 

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes 

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


12. "True love is rare and if you have that special someone in your life, hold on to them and never ever let them go."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


13. "If your relationship doesn't make you a better person, you probably are with the wrong person." 

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


14. "Time tells you everything that it needs to. It has it's own way of telling you some things, that no one else will."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


15. "Having that one person in your life, to whom you can speak your heart out, is a blessing."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

15 Quotes To Remember On Love And Relationships, Quote by This Ecstatic Soul Writes


I hope you enjoyed reading these quotations on love and relationships. The reason behind sharing these quotes with you all, is to let you all know that, rise in love and nourish your relationship with the goodness of love, respect, trust, care, honesty, understanding and everything else that helps you flourish your relationship. But if you are in a relationship, where you have to compromise with your self-respect, your worth, your dreams, your well-being and values, it is better to choose yourself, and walk away in peace and move ahead in your life. 

Rise And Shine!

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Thursday, 16 September 2021

NORMALIZE THE NORMAL



It's time for each one of us to normalize the normal things in life. 


Normalize The Normal


Normalize loving yourself first. 
Normalize speaking your heart out.
Normalize getting judged.
Normalize speaking against the unjust. 
Normalize walking away from negative people and places. 
Normalize prioritizing yourself over others.
Normalize taking a stand for yourself. 
Normalize embracing your flaws.
Normalize choosing respect over love.
Normalize ending toxic relationships.
Normalize prioritizing your self-respect over everything else.
Normalize chasing your dreams and fulfilling them. 
Normalize getting rid of anything that doesn't let you be you.

From me to you 

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes


In a world that we live in, it has become such a big deal to normalize what is normal. As a matter of fact, people have actually made a fuss out of it, which is supposedly uncalled for. And I am sure you all might have come across people in your lives, who have all the time in the world to intrude into the lives of others. 

In spite of being surrounded by people with obtrusive behaviour, develop the habit of not getting affected by it because it's just not worth your time and energy. Instead, just be your authentic self, do your thing, focus on yourself, work hard to accomplish your goals and fulfill your dreams and do what makes you feel happy and at peace. 

So let's get started. 


Normalize loving yourself first - Love is irrefutably the most beautiful emotion one can ever have. And so is the love for oneself. Because love is love, be it loving others or loving yourself, it holds the same meaning for everyone. And anyone who thinks that self-love makes you self-centered, probably haven't understood the meaning of it yet, so just don't care about it, it's your life and not theirs. And as a matter of fact, self-love doesn't make you selfish, it simply means that you care about yourself in every aspect and there is nothing wrong in that.

As, self-love is very significant in all the aspects of life, but we often underestimate the power of it, and take ourselves for granted and forget loving ourselves in the process. But this is supposedly not the right thing to do. You have to understand that it's normal to love yourself, because love starts from within and it's the most normal thing to do. Self-love doesn't make you selfish, it just makes you indifferent towards those who hurt you. Because loving yourself doesn't makes you a person who doesn't care about the well being of others, it just makes you put your mental and emotional well being first. 

So, you owe the love and care to yourself, because it's your life, and the only person who has the right over your life is you, so don't let others wobble you from, what is best for you and what is meant to be yours. 

"Knowing that you are enough is what makes you exceptional."
~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes


Normalize speaking your heart out - Speak what your heart says to you, keeping in mind, the person, place and time, whenever and where ever it is supposed to be said. 

In a world, where people usually tremble from speaking their heart out, be someone who speaks their heart, without hesitation, whenever and where ever it is required, because there is nothing wrong in that and you have all the right to speak for what you think and believe in. 

Speaking your heart out doesn't make you wrong, bad or rude, in fact it makes you a person with a pure heart who believes in speaking the truth, rather than telling a lie which is sugar coated. It's always better to speak your heart with the truth rather than saying something which might sound nice and comfort someone in the meanwhile but in the long run, a truth said, which is a little discomforting today, will always be better than something that is fallacious. 

You might come across a lot of situations in life, where you are suppose to speak your heart, so you should do the same because in the long run it will be of great help to you and you will thank yourself later, because a life lived with no regrets is anyway better than the one with many. 


Normalize getting judged - Every single person is being judged today, because getting judged has become a part of our lives. Every single day we are being judged for something or the other. And sometimes we are judged over something we are completely unaware of, that's how normal these days, getting judged has become.

So it's absolutely ok if you are being judged by someone for whatever reason known or unknown to you. If you are in existence, getting judged is normal because both goes hand in hand. If you do something, you will be judged, if you don't, still you will be judged, so just do your thing and don't let the judgements and opinion of others wobble you from what you want to do in life.

You have been blessed with a life from the almighty, so don't waste your precious emotions, time and energy on thinking what others might think of you, because that should not be of your concern. You should concentrate on your life, in making your dreams come true, in accomplishing your goals, in loving yourself and your loved ones and do whatever makes you happy and at peace. 

Let them judge you, because if they had better things to do in their life, they wouldn't have the time and energy to sit and judge others. So, you live your life to the fullest and live freely.


Normalize walking away from negative people and places - You often come across people and circumstances in your life, where you are surrounded by negative people in a pernicious environment, that doesn't let you grow and flourish. Because a person with a negative mindset has so much negativity within them, that they only look for negativity around and the environment that they live in, has so much negativity to it, that it becomes difficult to live in an environment like that.  

If you ever come across some people and circumstances, that deplete your energy and doesn't let you be you and where you have to compromise with your well being, self respect, values and self-worth, all you have to do is walk away in peace and choose yourself because you don't belong there. 

You deserve a life filled with tranquil and positivity. Wherein you have only those people around you,  who fill up your life with love and positivity and an environment which is not detrimental for you and your well being.  So, love yourself enough to walk away in peace, from anything that brings out the stress in you and no longer grows you, because you must know that you are enough and you are meant to flourish.


Normalize prioritizing your self-respect over everything else - If you will not respect yourself, then who will. Never compromise with your self-respect, no matter what. Self-respect is everything. Don't give someone the capacity to degrade you and treat you the way they want to. Nobody has the right to treat you in the wrong manner and make you coercively compromise with your self-respect. 

Sometimes you often make the mistake of tolerating disrespectful behaviour out of blind love for the other person, or out of fear of losing them, or not loving yourself enough, and this further leads you to compromise to an extend that it becomes detrimental for you and your self-worth.  

It is your dignity and integrity that dictates, how you see yourself, and how you let others see you.  Your values, your self-worth, your self-respect is precious, so don't ever let someone ruin it. Detach yourself from people and places, where you have to settle for something less than you are worthy of. 

If you ever find yourself in a situation, where you are ill treated and you have to compromise with your self-respect, just walk away, because you don't belong there and you deserve every bit of love and respect and everything that you wish for in your life.


Normalize embracing your flaws - Nobody is perfect and we all know that, still why is it so difficult for us to accept our flaws and embrace them. 

There are two kinds of flaws : - 

The one's which cannot be changed no matter what, and
The one's which can be altered and worked upon. 

We are all flawed, and there is not a single person who isn't. But how gracefully we deal with it and accept it, depends on us. There are some things and circumstances in life that cannot be changed, so it's better to accept them as it is, instead of grumbling over it. The more you will grumble and get vexed with it, the more you will be at a war with yourself. Because being in a war with yourself, will hamper your mental peace and well being, instead what you must do is, realize that you cannot do anything about it and accept it gracefully. 

On the other hand, there are some things that can be altered and worked upon. So, if you are not satisfied with something about yourself or something that has accidently or unfortunately occurred in your life, you don't have to give up and lose hope then, instead gather the energy and courage and work upon yourself and try to become better than how you were yesterday. And instead of complaining about the situation and running away from it, accept the situation, deal with it with courage and take your time to get over it.

So, to live a peaceful life and not let the thunderstorm within you and around you, wobble you away from the necessary things in life, you have to learn to accept and embrace your flaws and work upon those which can be altered or changed.


Normalize ending toxic relationships - A relationship that is toxic, ends up muddling up with your head and heart. It drains away your energy and peace and leaves you in a situation which is filled with anxiety, suffering, melancholy, and disgust. And nobody wants to live in an environment which is detrimental for their physical and mental well being.

So, if you ever find yourself in a toxic relationship, or come across someone with toxic behaviour,  instead of tolerating that kind of wrong behaviour and ignoring the red flags, walk away from that person and the relationship. Because the more you will tolerate, the more leverage you will give the other person to behave in a manner they shouldn't. 

A relationship is meant to bloom and the individuals in the relationship bring out the best in each other. But a toxic relationship brings out the worse in you and stresses you up to a level that it hampers your well being. 

You have to respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that manipulates with your mind and thought process and serves you with everything that is not wishful in life. Walk away in peace and choose yourself over the toxic relationship, which is not letting you lead a happy and peaceful life and impeding your growth process as well. 


Normalize speaking against the unjust and taking a stand for yourself - If you ever come across a situation in life where you get a chance to speak against the unjust, don't hesitate to. Speak out loud against the people who are wrong and who take the undue advantage, instead of feeling guilty. 

Speaking against the unjust and taking a stand for yourself will never be easy, but it will be totally worth the time, effort and the energy that you give in. Because the truth and genuine efforts can never go in vain, no matter what. 

"If they try to break you down, show them what strong is."
~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

When you take a stand for yourself, you also set an example for others and inspire them to speak against the unjust and unfair and not lose hope, in spite of the predicaments, that come across your way. Because you are a true warrior, and no one can break you down and not anything in this world can ever let you give up in life. 

So, take a stand for yourself and speak against what you don't feel is right, because it's normal to do so. What's not normal is tolerating the unjust and not taking a stand for yourself. 


Normalize chasing your dreams and fulfilling them - A life without a purpose in it, is aimless and not worth living. So, dare to believe that you can chase your dreams and fulfill them no matter what comes your way. 

Have faith in yourself that you are worthy of fulfilling your dreams, and don't get wobbled away with the fear of not being able to fulfill your dreams, because you can, if you believe in yourself. Have the courage to fight and leave no stone unturned in accomplishing your goals and converting your dreams in reality. 

Chasing your dreams and fulfilling them will be the best that you can do for yourself. And when you will see your accomplished dreams in front of your eyes, that feeling will be a pure bliss and nothing can ever compare to that. 

Give in all your hard work, discipline, dedication, time, patience, efforts and whatever it takes to fulfill your dreams. Give it your all, because it will be totally worth it. And live your life to the fullest and fight for your dreams because only you can do that for yourself. So, never ever give up in life and hold on to your dreams until you fulfill them. 


                             Choose you, Be you, and normalize getting rid of anything that doesn't let you be you. Because you are you and there can be no one like you. You have your own individual identity, so what is the point of living a life where you can't be yourself, instead walk away from anything that doesn't let you be you. And live your life the way you want to live, with accomplished goals, fulfilled dreams, loved ones around and a happy, dignified and a peaceful life. 

Life is beautiful and always seek for the reasons to make it worth living and even more beautiful. And don't forget to NORMALIZE THE NORMAL. 

All the best!

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Sunday, 12 September 2021

YOU ARE MAGIC

 

Hello people! Do you even know, you are a miracle on earth and the super powers that you have within you, can leave people flabbergasted. Yes, that's for real. 


You Are Magic



You are all the magicians of your life and you have the magic within you, you just have dig deep inside within yourself, to make it happen. 

Don't look for magic in someone else or around you, try seeking it within you and see how it works. 
~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

You have to understand that the only person who is capable of looking beyond the obvious for yourself, is you and only you. You have to start looking beyond, what is obvious and start looking beyond the horizon, because only then you will see the opportunities and the infinite possibilities for you to succeed in life and make your dreams come true. 

For the magic to occur in your life, you have to make it happen. And rely only on yourself and not others. Because your magic lies within you, so don't try to look for it, in someone else, but yourself. And keep in mind, some of these points and let yourself know, you are meant to shine. 


Never underestimate yourself - You are all special in your own way, and that's what makes you, who you are. You don't even know how magical and miraculous you are, because you often make the mistake of underestimating yourself and that's what leads you to settling for less than what you deserve. You underestimate yourself because you lack the vision and belief, that you are capable of having much more in life and this thought process leads you into doubting yourself in accomplishing your dreams and goals.

Underestimating yourself, closes a lot of doors of possibilities and opportunities for you, because you are so driven by self doubt, that you don't consider yourself worthy of what you deserve in life, and this further leads you to not exploring new things in life, because coming out of your cocoon of self doubt is what you are scared of. 

You have to realize and understand that you are much more stronger and capable of who you think you are, and for this to happen, you have to get rid of self doubt and underestimating yourself. The day you will realize that you are worthy of anything you aspire to be, your life will change for the good, your dreams will come true, your goals will be accomplished, your wishes will be fulfilled, and you will introduce yourself to a new and a better version of yourself. A version who will not  underestimate their super power of creating magic, because you will finally realize that your magic lies within you.


Don't compare yourself to others - You are you, and nobody can be you, and that's your super power. You have to understand that you are one unique personality, and there can be no one like you, you are as special as, you can think of being. Work hard on yourself, challenge yourself, and test your boundaries and become the best version of yourself, because it's your life and it is your unique journey, which can never be compared to others. 

We are all different, we are all at different stages in life, our journeys are different, our strengths and limitations are different, our backgrounds are different, our experiences are different, everything is just so different from the other and it is such a foolery to compare our lives with somebody's else's because it just cannot be compared and there is no root to it and the thing which has no root to itself, cannot be into existence of any kind. 

It's futile to compare yourself to others and their journey with yours. Instead develop the right attitude of comparing yourself with who and how you were yesterday. Shift your focus and energy on yourself and your journey and do what it takes to bring out the best in you, because you should know that, you have it in you for the magic to take place. 


Keep your willpower strong - Life is unpredictable and also a path of uncertainties, and you never know what comes next because life is like that. It is a journey of ebb and flow, so to keep at it with the right pace, you have to make the changes accordingly. And it is your willpower which will keep you going no matter what comes your way, because willpower is one of the most essential ability to achieve your desired goals in life. It is that magical power which helps you becoming the person who you really want to be. 

Sometimes you lack the will and determination in yourself, because you lose the vision and get wobbled away by the internal and external factors influencing you, and that further leads into, you not being able to accomplish your goals. So, to not get trembled away, you have to keep your willpower strong and it a gradual process which gets build up with patience and practice over a period of time. 

So, never ever give up in life, even in the most catastrophic conditions because your willpower can move mountains, and if you will keep your willpower strong and intact, you can achieve anything that you wish for in life, by creating a new reality and perform miracles and you will see the best version of yourself because the word "giving up" will never be found in your dictionary, no matter what comes your way. 


Self - Belief is the key - If you want to achieve something in life with all your heart and soul, you must believe in yourself. It is about having the appropriate amount of confidence within you, to complete a particular task and accomplish a desired goal in life. You have to recognize and realize your abilities and potentials that you are capable of everything that you wish for in life. 

Self - belief is the foundation, and a building cannot be build on a weak foundation because everything else lies on it. Everything starts from within, and if you lack the ability to believe in yourself, then you cannot attain what you wish for in life, because if you will not believe in yourself, then who else will. With self - belief you will be able to overcome the hurdles, accomplish your goals, fulfill your dreams, and attain whatever you wish for in life.

In a situation, where the whole world might conspire to be against you, but there is that one person who no matter what comes your way, will stick by you through thick and thin and that one person is you, nobody can shake and break you then. Because people who believe in themselves, can take care of anything in life and even the most catastrophic situations cannot break them and wobble them away, from their goals and dreams. So, have faith and believe in yourself, because if you will not, then who else will. 

Always keep repeating this line to yourself, because this will be a game changer for you and will help you seek for magic within you :

"I CAN DO IT", no matter what comes my why. I always have and I always will. 


Don't lose hope and stay positive - Hope is such a powerful thing, that it's miracles are beyond our imaginations. It has the capability to move mountains and can change your life for the good. So, if you want to create magic in your life and achieve the impossible, then never ever lose hope in life, because hope is that one thing that keeps you going, no matter what comes your way. 

Hope keeps you motivated and inspired to not give up in life through the adverse situations and the worst case scenarios. It helps you overcome the hurdles that you face in life and helps you in fulfilling your dreams thereby leading you to a better well being, because a hopeful person is anyway far better than one who is not. So, no matter what, hope should be a constant in your life, because you cannot create magic without the hope of attaining it. 

Never ever underestimate the power of positivity, because your positive approach towards life helps you attain your goals and fulfill your dreams. You will obviously come across hardships in life, because they are a part of it, but what makes you stand out is your approach towards it. Having a positive mindset even in the most adverse situations, doesn't let you give up in life. Because it's your thought process that can make or break you, and one positive thought acts like a ray of hope, which changes the whole game and brings you closer to your dreams. 

So, to seek for the magic within you, hope and positive thinking is of vital importance. 


Stay determined and work hard - Hard work pays off. It might take some time, but it definitely will payoff. Just stay determined. In order to fulfill your dreams you have to work hard, for it to come true and keep at it in spite of the adversities you come across the journey. Our journey of life is incomplete if we don't have dreams to fulfill and goals to accomplish and to live a life worth living, we should stick to our goals and dreams and leave no stone unturned in converting them into reality. 

Name one successful person who has achieved a lot in their lives of their own, by not working hard. I don't think so, there is anyone who is on top and has done no hard work in the process. Because it's not possible to build your name in this competitive world without working smart and determined hard work. Of course hard work alone cannot do wonders, it has to be accompanied by a lot other other things, to achieve your desired goal. But with hard work, smart work is also very important. The right way to make use of your potential, in the right place, and at the right time, is also very important. 

So, if you have dreams to fulfill, then keep at it. Stay determined, work hard and work smart and pull out all the stops, to convert your dreams into reality. Because it is the determination and hard work that will keep you going and bring out the hidden magic that lies within you. 


Be brave and courageous - Every step taken forward with courage, will take you closer to your dreams and goals. Your outlook towards life will be determined by your ability to deal with grim situations gracefully with courage.

Courage will help you bring out the best in you because it will not let you give up in life and if you will learn to not give up in life, no matter what, with every passing day, you will see a better version of yourself and it will bring you closer to your goals and dreams. And then, there will be a day in front of your eyes, where you will be living a life, just the way you wanted to, with accomplished dreams, overcoming all the obstacles. 

Sometimes all it takes is, just a tiny moment of courage.
~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes 

Life is not always a cake walk, and you will indubitably come across adversities that will test your every single moment, of your days of hardships, and it will be your courageous approach then, that will not let you give up and help you attain your goals and fulfill your dreams.

Sometimes a decision taken in one tiny moment of courage, in the right direction is all that it takes to change your life for the better and you will finally realize in the process, that your magic lies within you.


Take risks - Whatever you do in life, risk is that one thing that is irrefutable. And till the time you will not take risks, how will you know, what is best for you and what is not. If you develop the ability to take risk, you can then make use of your potential and capabilities to the fullest. And only then you will know what opportunities lies in front of you and how can you make the most out of it. 

Have the will to do things. In spite of knowing, that you might not get a positive outcome out of something, is what makes you a risk taker, because you are not afraid of taking chances, till you do not succeed. A risk taker strive for the best in life because they know that they deserve every bit of of what they desire to achieve. 

Dare to take risk, because life is about taking chances, you either win, or you learn, there is no question of losing, because the myriad learnings, the experiences and the knowledge that you gain while taking risks, teaches you a lot in life because you are not scared of failure, instead you are open to explore new and different things in life which will gain you success and introduce you to the magic within you. 


Step out of your comfort zone - To strive for the magic within you, you have to step out of your cocoon of comfort zone, only then you will know, there is so much for you that life has to offer. In order to bring out the best in you, you have to step out and take chances, only then you will know and understand your capabilities and make full utilization of them. 

Comfort zone is that obstacle that stands between you and your dreams, because you get scared of taking chances and leaving your zone of comfort. Staying in your comfort zone for months and years, make you habitual and comfortable of the environment you are in. And this comfort doesn't let you explore the new and take risk, because you become resistant to change and that hinders your efficiency, productivity and growth process as well. 

When you will step out of your comfort zone, the experience that you will gain will be unparalleled, to what you have gained till now. Stepping out of your comfort zone, accelerates your journey towards attaining your goals in life. So, strive to convert your dreams into reality by stepping out of your cocoon. And always remember that you are much more capable of you think you are. And take that extra mile and get closer to your dreams and goals. 


Comeback after a setback - Failure is a part of life, and one of the most influential learning experience. Can you name a single person who hasn't failed in their life. I don't think so, because their isn't any. But I am sure you can name a plenty of those, who have comeback stronger than ever after they have gone through a major setback in their life. 

And that's where the real challenge lies in, what you choose to do with your life after a failure. The choice is absolutely yours. You can either :

Sit back and whine over the failure, or
Fight and comeback stronger than ever. 

Don't let failure wobble you from achieving your dreams. Realize that the magic lies within you and it is your super power that helps you comeback standing strong, after the major setback in your life. So, no matter what comes your way and how adverse the situation is, you always have to make your way after the setbacks, because it is the failures that will teach you a lot in life and the experience that you will gain after these setbacks will be worth every effort. 

That's how life is, you win some, you lose some, be it success or failure. It is an experience that teaches you to look beyond the horizons of winning or losing, instead take it as a learning experience and never ever give up in life and make a comeback with a feather in your cap. 


Life might hit you hard in the face, but that's when you have to show life that no matter how hard it may hit, giving up is not in your dictionary. And you will keep moving forward in life, no matter what comes your way. You will always shoot for the sky amidst the storm, because you know that life is beautiful. 

So, Keep Rising and Keep Shining! 

And kindly drop your feedback in the comments below, on my post YOU ARE MAGIC. And don't ever forget that you are a warrior who is born to shine. 


Thursday, 9 September 2021

JUST IN LOVE


A poetry dipped in the magic of love.


Just In Love


The fairy lights 

and the fluttering fireflies.

A cup of coffee

on a winter night.              

The glistering stars

and the flickering moon.

Gazing at the sky

until it turns blue.

Me and you

making our dreams come true.


"Love doesn't need a voice that speaks, all it needs is a heart that beats. "

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes


"I Love You". Say this to your special someone and dedicate this poetry to them and let them know how deep is your love for them and how beautiful are the moments that the two of you spend together. And life seems so much better, when they are around. 

Not everything special, that is whole heartedly done, needs to be over the top and extravagant. Sometimes, a sweet little moment of love with your partner, can make you feel over the moon. It's just the honest intention that matters, rather than the fancy words and gifts. 

LOVE, it truly is the most ethereal feeling in the world, and there is no bigger happiness in life, than loving someone and being loved by someone is. When in love, everything seems magical and world suddenly starts looking like a better place to live in, because it changes everything within you and on the outside. 

Yes it's true that love has it's own language and sometimes it's the silence that speaks a thousand words and not speaking a word, sometimes conveys it all. But to let your special one know, how much you love them, expression of thoughts, emotions and feelings plays a very essential role, which will be possible only when, you will communicate to them about the same. So, if you haven't said it yet, then let your special person know, how much you love them and how blessed you feel you are, to have them in your life. 

When you love someone, you don't just love them for what they are, but you love them for what you are, when you are with them. You not just love them for what they have made of themselves, but you love them for what they are making of you. You love them because they introduced you to a part of you, that you were unaware of, with the intention of bringing out the best in you. That's how love is and that's how two people deeply in love, feel for each other. 

When in love, just a glimpse of your partner is enough to bring a smile on your face. Just a glance of them is enough for your heart to start smiling and for your eyes to start shining, because it's the myriad love that you have for each other and the hope that the love that you both have for one other is eternal, and nothing in this world can ever change that.

Imagine yourself with the love of your life, sitting next to them, with your head on their shoulder, gazing at the sky, and let the stars and the moon witness your love and hours of your endless conversations, till the sky turns blue. That's how real and precious the little moments of love and happiness are, because when you are with them, it's the tiniest of moments that matter the most. 

LOVE is the most beautiful emotion one can have because when you are with your special someone, you can just be your authentic self, with no filter on and you can converse about anything and everything, be it your life, your dreams, your strengths, your weaknesses, your failures, your achievements, your highs and lows and whatever you want to, because you know that they will not judge you and will never ask you to change for them, but will help you evolve in every possible way. 

The person you are in love with, will always want the best for you in life and they will stay by your side through thick and thin and they will leave no stone unturned in motivating you to fulfill your dreams and live your life to the fullest. And this eventually will make your love for them grow deeper and stronger. 

LOVE is a food for your soul, because it brings happiness, peace and harmony into your life. It is the most blissful feeling ever. The feeling of tranquil with your special one, is just so ethereal. It surpasses all the other emotions, be it the emotions of melancholy, enrage or any sort of negative emotion, because love conquers all. 


ESSENCE OF THE POEM - When two people in love, even the tiniest of moments like enjoying your favourite cup of coffee, sitting under the sky, with the fireflies, the stars and the moon as a witness to your never ending conversations from sunset to sunrise feels like heaven, because you have always dreamt of sweet moments like these and now living them for real feels ethereal. 

Just so perfect! Two people in love! Living their dream! Truly, Madly and Deeply! 


For different people, love might hold a different meaning to it, but the emotions that you experience in your life when in love are unsurpassed, and nothing can ever compare to that. 

True love is rare and if you have that special someone in your life, who truly loves you, hold on to them and never ever let them go. 

Rise in love, because that's how love exactly is. When in love with the right person, you rise in life as well. 

And share this poetry with your loved one and let them know, how much you love them and how every little moment spend with them is truly magical. 


And do let me know in the comments below, how you like my post, JUST IN LOVE.

 

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