Monday, 25 October 2021

MEMENTO OF LOVE


This one is a little piece of love as a memento to a love story which is real, but not a reality. 


Memento of Love


Memento of Love 


Together or miles apart,
the love in my heart, will never depart.
You are the one and will always be,
my forever, we were meant to be. 

If not in reality,
then in the books of fiction,
I will keep you alive,
through my words like a benediction. 

From me to you 

This Ecstatic Soul Writes 


Have you heard of true love stories ? Or is your love story a real one ? Or have you just read about them in the books by some greatest authors of all time. Which one are you ? 

I don't know about you all but I genuinely hope for each one of you, to have a real love story of your own and keep it alive till eternity, and experience the purest thing in the whole wide world. 

The myriad feelings, the impeccable memories, the unparalleled emotions, the selfless affection, the magical bonding, and what not, you experience so much at once, that it sometimes feels illusory in the real world. 

If you believe in love, you will then know, that love is everything and everything is love. In a world that is missing out on the biggest miracle in life, needs it and a lot of it. You need love, I need love, we all need love.

Fortunate are the ones, who get to spend the rest of their life with the person they love, and celebrate each moment of their life with them, a life in which they share every moment together. Every ebb and flow you come across in life, seems a little less adverse when you know that you have someone by your side who will stay with you through thick and thin. And then the world seems like a better place to live in because you know you have the love of your life by your side for the rest of your life.  

Not every love story is complete. Some love stories make it till the end but some do not. Some experience the most beautiful bond of togetherness but some do not. Some stay intact till the end of time, but some do not, because not all love stories are the same. Every love story speaks and has something different to say. 

There are also some unprecedented love stories which are so real, that in spite of ending in reality they do not end because the love within, doesn't let it end. That's how true love is, it has no endings and it never dies, and it stays alive in the heart and soul of the lovers, no matter what. True love doesn't fade away with time or distance, it just grows stronger with every passing day and no predicaments in life can ever make it fade away. 


"True love stories have no endings."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes


Yes, it's true, some love stories have no endings, because they are real. Distance, time, circumstances, and a lot of different reasons, might grow apart two people but it can never grow apart their souls, because these external factors cannot vanquish the intensity of true love which is within them because love always find it's way. And that's the beauty of true love, it doesn't diminish, it doesn't fade away, it doesn't die, because it doesn't want to. All that it knows is, to get stronger with time.


"True love is that souvenir, that stays with you till the end of time."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes


Two souls together from within, yet apart from the outside but still closest to the heart, that's how real love is. When you love someone, that person may not be with you in physical form, you can still love them with all your heart and soul because, if the feelings are real, nothing in the world can make it feel unreal. 

And not everyone is fortunate enough to experience the true feeling and bond of love because not everyone really knows and understand the real meaning of love and what it is to be in love and how does it feel to experience the most beautiful emotion in the world. Being in love and staying till the end takes courage and not everyone has the courage to stay till the end of time, only those who truly love, do. 


"True love is rare and if you have that special someone in your life, hold on to them and never ever let them go."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes


We often make the mistake of taking our partners for granted, and not loving them enough, which moreover leads to losing them. So, if you have the love of your life by your side, you are fortunate beyond your imaginations, so don't take them for granted and do whatever it takes to flourish your relationship and cherish them because they are precious.

There are some love stories which are not even blessed with togetherness but because they are so real, that in spite of not being together in reality, the love within doesn't fade away and die, in fact it grows stronger with time and it stays with them till the end of time, because true love is like that. Always and Forever !


Essence of the poem 

This is a little poem that I wrote about love which connotes the intensity of true love, which is beyond the boundation of anything and everything. Believing that nothing in this world can quiver the existence of it, no matter what comes in the way. It will stay alive forever if not in reality, then through the words as a blessing, coming straight from the heart and soul. 


Some love stories have no endings, that is why they are called true love stories.

Because real is rare. So, if yours is real, you are blessed. 

I hope you liked, what you read. Happy Reading!


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Monday, 11 October 2021

THE POWER OF TIME


Time teaches you everything that it needs to. It has it's own way of teaching you things, that no one else will.


The Power of Time


Time, your best teacher in life and it is that one thing in your life, that will irrefutably show and teach you things, that nothing in this world can. And the teachings and lessons that time will teach you, will stay with you for the rest of your life.


> Time has a wonderful way of showing you, what really matters to you and what doesn't. With the passage of time, you understand the importance of things that are valuable to you. And with this understanding, you can then make better utilization of your time, by devoting every ounce of your breathe and blood on the things that really matters. 

> Time is immensely precious because the time that you lose, can never be found again, no matter what. Once it's gone, it never comes back. So, instead of regretting later for the time that you have wasted and lost, it is better to make the best use of it in the present moment. Because when it comes to the preciousness of time, it is now or never. 

> Time has it's own way of showing you, who really matters to you and who doesn't, because in the due course of time, time reveals who is the right person in your life and who isn't. We all go through ebb and flow in our lives and time reveals who will stay with us in our days of hardships and who will leave, because it's the difficult times, that reveals the reality of people in our lives.

> We all go through impediments and difficult times in our lives, but how well we cope up with it and embrace ourselves through it, is what matters. Healing takes time, you cannot just heal in a split of second or miraculously overnight. Like one day you wake up and everything is wiped off from your mind and heart, with no bitter memories, no that is just not possible. 

Healing is a process and it will take time. You don't have to rush into forgetting things and move on. You have to give yourself some time, but what you do in the time of your healing process is what matters, because it's the efforts that you make, will make a difference in your life and help you in healing yourself in a better way. And when you will be healed, you will see how beautifully you have evolved. 

> What wonders time can do in your lives is beyond your imagination, because you sometimes underestimate THE POWER OF TIME. You often make the mistake of giving up and losing hope under ordeal circumstances, but instead of giving up during the quagmires, you should think positive and not lose hope, because you never know, what amazing things life might have in store for you.


"Sometimes, the darkest chapters lead you to the brightest end."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes 


Till the time you will not fight your battles, you will not know that life truly is a box of chocolates, and only those get to taste them, who do not give up life and live a life giving the best of their efforts and work hard during predicaments, with a hope that sun will shine brighter after the darkest night. 

> Life is too short to waste time pondering over, what other people might think of you and say. It's your life and only yours, so do what you think is best for you and do what you enjoy doing the most and makes you exultant. Don't get wobbled away from your dreams and goals, instead make the most of your time and pull out all the stops in making your dreams come true and accomplishing your goals. 


"People will say what they want to, all you have to do is ignore them and do what you want to."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes 


> Don't waste time thinking that you have enough time to chase your dreams and goals. If you have dreams to fulfill and goals to accomplish, start that very moment and take every possible step that will bring to closer to your dreams and goals. Don't wait for the right time, whatever time you have, make it right for yourself and do your thing. 

> Whatever time teaches you, never ever let that go in vain, because the teachings of time are like the food for your soul and it adds wisdom to your life. The teachings in life that you learn with time, makes you better and stronger than before and teaches you the most crucial lessons, sometimes beautifully and sometimes the hard way. 

> Your time is precious and so are you and sometimes you might come across people and circumstances in your life, who try to deplete your energy with their actions and words, and try to intervene with your peace of mind, that's when you have to understand and realize that your time is your valuable asset and you cannot let it go in vain because of someone else. 


"Liars gonna lie

Haters gonna hate

All you have to do is,

work hard and have faith."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes


> Every relationship requires time. Spend your time with those people who love you unconditionally and not with those who put conditions first, before loving you. Because that is not what love is. Love is not about conditions, and if you ever come across a situation where you have to fulfill some conditions for love, get rid of them as soon as possible because you are wasting your time and energy on the wrong person.  

Don't waste your time on those who love you and spend time with you, when the conditions are right for them. Instead spend your time with those who love you and stick by you through thick and thin. 

Spend your time with the people who matter to you, because it takes time for a relationship to grow and flourish. 

> Who you spend your time with and is of great value to you. Instead of making the blunder of wasting your time, on the people who are not good for your well being and mental peace, spend your time with those who do no try to deplete your energy and don't make you question your life decisions and choices with their judgements. 

Spend your time with people who have a positive approach towards life and with those, who talk about dreams, goals, growth and success and spare no effort in fulfilling them. This will inspire you to never stop endeavoring in life and move heaven and earth in chasing your dreams. 

>Nothing is permanent in this world, just like the good days, even the not so good days are not here to stay forever. So never ever lose hope in life. Hope is permanent, and it should always be. No matter how many curve balls life throws at you, you don't have to give up in life because you should know that time will change no matter what comes your way.

Just like after the dark night, the advent of gleaming sun brings hope of new day, in the same way the changing times after the adversities, brings opportunities and hope of a better and a brighter tomorrow. 

> The only constant thing in this world is, the changing time, because time never remains the same, it keeps changing, no matter what. So before its too late, start utilizing your time and understand the significance of it and value it and make the most of it in the present moment and live your life to the fullest. 

> Time is valuable because once it is gone, it can never come back. So, leave no stone unturned to live the life of your dreams and make the best of time and value every single moment of your life. 


I have come up with some pointers on THE POWER OF TIME, that you must takeaway from this post. 

~ Time is the best teacher in your life. 

~ Time helps you in becoming stronger than who you were yesterday.

~ Your growth depends on how effectively and efficiently you utilize your time.

~ Time helps you in flourishing your relationships.

~ Your time is precious, so don't waste it living somebody else's life. 

~ Time waits for no one in this world. 

~ Time reveals who are the right people for you and who aren't. 

~ For some things there is no right time, whatever time you have, just make it right. 

~ Time, once it is lost, you can never get it back. 

~ What keeps you busy is what you have chosen for yourself, so choose wisely. 

~ Your time is precious, so make sure you spend it with people who value their time and yours. 

~ What you do with your time, is what makes you great or ordinary.  

~ Time shows and teaches you everything. 

~ If you know the value of time and live by it, you will be set free then.

~ Time can heal you only when you will make a genuine effort towards healing yourself.

~ How you manage your time, defines who you are as a person. 

~ Time is impeccably valuable. 

~ You might get tired and take a halt but the clock won't. 


Every single person on this planet gets 24 hours in a day throughout their life. So what you do in those 24 hours every single day, how you spend the 1440 minutes of your time everyday and who you spend it with, is what will make a difference in your life. 

It's your time, own it like you were meant to and shine with dazzling colors. 

A Little Reminder From Me To You - Make a vow to yourself, that you will commit to and live by the affirmation of embracing the value and power of time. 


Kindly feel free to add pointers from your end on my post, THE POWER OF TIME and give your feedback in the comments section below on the same.


Thursday, 7 October 2021

SHE IS FREE


Hello lovelies !

It's time for you to fly, so unfold your wings and fly as high as you want to. 


She is free

She is loving 

She is caring 

She is funny 

She is daring


She is quirky 

She is moody

She is playful

She is carefree


Let her, be her. 

If you love her, then don't try to change her.


Let her breathe

Let her live


Set her free and let her be. 


From me to you 


~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes


She is who she wants to be. Her willingness to be who she is, is what defines her. The world that we live in, sometimes compels her to be something she is not. And that's when her determination and courage to be herself, sets her free because that is when she decides for herself, that it's her life and no one can define who she is, what she should do and how she should be living it.

A world that we live in, is constantly fighting a battle over what a woman can do and what a woman can't and moreover it has laid a huge impact in the lives of women, because they are constantly judged by some people no matter what they do. So the problem lies in the thought process of the people who are regressive thinkers and who think that women cannot live a life on their own terms. 

Why only women !

Why are women considered to be the idol of renunciation ?

Why is the burden of compromises and adjustments laid down on her, as if she was born to make sacrifices all her life. 

Why are norms still imposed on her. 

Why can't people let women be herself. 

Why can't women live a life on their own terms. 

Why can't women be free.

We all deserve to live a life with our own free will, and so are women. Women deserve freedom and every bit of it, so that they can live an independent life, wherein they can freely breathe and live a carefree life and just be themselves, without the imposition of something uncalled for. 


"A woman sets herself free, the moment she decides to be herself and live a life set by her own standards and creates an identity of her own."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

In a world that is constantly trying to change her into something she is not, every women deserves to be free, free from the baggage of other people's decisions and opinions being imposed on her. It's her belief in herself and her perseverance, that doesn't let her wobble away from her self-being and her self-worth. 

Women deserve to live a life on the basis of the standards they have set for themselves and nobody has the right to build standards for her and decide what she is worthy of and what she is not. It is her eminence that will take her places and let her succeed in life, and not the preconceived notions and standards that have been imposed on her.

And when she decides to be herself in this factitious world, nothing can stop her then. Her willingness and willpower to create an identity of her own, is what sets her free. 


"Love is freedom and it sets you free, and if it doesn't set you free, it isn't love." 

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

Love is irrefutably the most beautiful emotion one can have and if you really love her and never want to lose her, then set her free and let her be. Because that is how it should be. Love is freedom, and it is not about staying locked in a cage, rather it is the freedom to fly high in the sky. Just like every caged bird wants to come out the cage it has been immured in, because freedom is what they long for. 

Some people haven't understood the meaning of love yet, because they often make the mistake of trying to change women and that constant expectation from her, to be as they expect her to be, is not what love is. Because if you genuinely love her, you would not want her to change, as per your convenience and expectations because that is not what love is. 

Love is accepting and admiring someone as they are and not as you expect them to be. Love is letting them be themselves. Just let her be herself and see how beautiful the world turns out to be for her and for you as well. 

The constant approach of changing her into a version, preferable to you, is not what love is. Because love is not a game that you can play whenever you want to and get rid of it as per your will. That is not how it is. It is like worshipping the almighty with all your heart and pure faith, only then it can prosper and flourish.


"Her wings are invisible, but not her potential because she is meant to fly." 

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

She is everything that she could be, and there is fire in her desire to be herself in a world that is constantly trying to change her into something she is not. Her potential to live a life of her own, independently and freely is what makes her, who she is. 

You might not see her wings because they are invisible, but her real wings are her strength, her capability, her belief, her perseverance, her willpower, her courage to not give up in life and strive for what she wants to attain in life and live freely and fly high, in spite of the impediments in life that come across her way. 


"Don't try to cut her wings because she is born to fly."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

She has the power to do whatever she wants to and the potential to be whoever she wants to be. And nothing can ever stop her from being what she desires to be, because the warrior in her doesn't let her give up in life. The storms that come to disrupt her life, end up building her into a better and stronger version of herself. 

No matter how long you try to cage her into your regressive thought process and the burden of your unfair expectations, she knows how to break the cage and free herself from everything that tries to pull her down and hamper her journey to freedom, because she is born to fly. 


SHE IS FREE !

She is free to live a life on her own terms.

She is free to fulfill her dreams.

She is free to leave people and places, if it tries to muddle up with her identity and peace.

She is free to be herself. 

She is free to fly high and touch the sky. 


A Reminder From Me To All You Dear Women - You are what you want to be, and not what others want you to be, because you are free. And it's your freedom that defines you. So, fly high because you deserve to. 

A Reminder From Me To All of You - Just for once keep yourself at her place and try to live her life, only then you will know, what it takes to be a woman in the world that we live in.

So, let her live her life. Because -

"She is who she wants to be and not what others want her to be."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes.


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