Thursday, 7 October 2021


Hello lovelies !

It's time for you to fly, so unfold your wings and fly as high as you want to. 

She is free

She is loving 

She is caring 

She is funny 

She is daring

She is quirky 

She is moody

She is playful

She is carefree

Let her, be her. 

If you love her, then don't try to change her.

Let her breathe

Let her live

Set her free and let her be. 

From me to you 

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

She is who she wants to be. Her willingness to be who she is, is what defines her. The world that we live in, sometimes compels her to be something she is not. And that's when her determination and courage to be herself, sets her free because that is when she decides for herself, that it's her life and no one can define who she is, what she should do and how she should be living it.

A world that we live in, is constantly fighting a battle over what a woman can do and what a woman can't and moreover it has laid a huge impact in the lives of women, because they are constantly judged by some people no matter what they do. So the problem lies in the thought process of the people who are regressive thinkers and who think that women cannot live a life on their own terms. 

Why only women !

Why are women considered to be the idol of renunciation ?

Why is the burden of compromises and adjustments laid down on her, as if she was born to make sacrifices all her life. 

Why are norms still imposed on her. 

Why can't people let women be herself. 

Why can't women live a life on their own terms. 

Why can't women be free.

We all deserve to live a life with our own free will, and so are women. Women deserve freedom and every bit of it, so that they can live an independent life, wherein they can freely breathe and live a carefree life and just be themselves, without the imposition of something uncalled for. 

"A woman sets herself free, the moment she decides to be herself and live a life set by her own standards and creates an identity of her own."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

In a world that is constantly trying to change her into something she is not, every women deserves to be free, free from the baggage of other people's decisions and opinions being imposed on her. It's her belief in herself and her perseverance, that doesn't let her wobble away from her self-being and her self-worth. 

Women deserve to live a life on the basis of the standards they have set for themselves and nobody has the right to build standards for her and decide what she is worthy of and what she is not. It is her eminence that will take her places and let her succeed in life, and not the preconceived notions and standards that have been imposed on her.

And when she decides to be herself in this factitious world, nothing can stop her then. Her willingness and willpower to create an identity of her own, is what sets her free. 

"Love is freedom and it sets you free, and if it doesn't set you free, it isn't love." 

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

Love is irrefutably the most beautiful emotion one can have and if you really love her and never want to lose her, then set her free and let her be. Because that is how it should be. Love is freedom, and it is not about staying locked in a cage, rather it is the freedom to fly high in the sky. Just like every caged bird wants to come out the cage it has been immured in, because freedom is what they long for. 

Some people haven't understood the meaning of love yet, because they often make the mistake of trying to change women and that constant expectation from her, to be as they expect her to be, is not what love is. Because if you genuinely love her, you would not want her to change, as per your convenience and expectations because that is not what love is. 

Love is accepting and admiring someone as they are and not as you expect them to be. Love is letting them be themselves. Just let her be herself and see how beautiful the world turns out to be for her and for you as well. 

The constant approach of changing her into a version, preferable to you, is not what love is. Because love is not a game that you can play whenever you want to and get rid of it as per your will. That is not how it is. It is like worshipping the almighty with all your heart and pure faith, only then it can prosper and flourish.

"Her wings are invisible, but not her potential because she is meant to fly." 

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

She is everything that she could be, and there is fire in her desire to be herself in a world that is constantly trying to change her into something she is not. Her potential to live a life of her own, independently and freely is what makes her, who she is. 

You might not see her wings because they are invisible, but her real wings are her strength, her capability, her belief, her perseverance, her willpower, her courage to not give up in life and strive for what she wants to attain in life and live freely and fly high, in spite of the impediments in life that come across her way. 

"Don't try to cut her wings because she is born to fly."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes

She has the power to do whatever she wants to and the potential to be whoever she wants to be. And nothing can ever stop her from being what she desires to be, because the warrior in her doesn't let her give up in life. The storms that come to disrupt her life, end up building her into a better and stronger version of herself. 

No matter how long you try to cage her into your regressive thought process and the burden of your unfair expectations, she knows how to break the cage and free herself from everything that tries to pull her down and hamper her journey to freedom, because she is born to fly. 


She is free to live a life on her own terms.

She is free to fulfill her dreams.

She is free to leave people and places, if it tries to muddle up with her identity and peace.

She is free to be herself. 

She is free to fly high and touch the sky. 

A Reminder From Me To All You Dear Women - You are what you want to be, and not what others want you to be, because you are free. And it's your freedom that defines you. So, fly high because you deserve to. 

A Reminder From Me To All of You - Just for once keep yourself at her place and try to live her life, only then you will know, what it takes to be a woman in the world that we live in.

So, let her live her life. Because -

"She is who she wants to be and not what others want her to be."

~ This Ecstatic Soul Writes.

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  1. Really appreciate your words 🙏❤

  2. Beautifully written Konica 👏🏻 👏🏻 Loved your content 😇

  3. "Her wings are invisible, but not her potential because she is meant to fly." 

  4. Set her free and let her be. Wow
    You write so beautifully its so easy to connect and understand.



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