Sunday, 14 November 2021


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My post 31 best affirmations to live by, is exclusively for all those who believe in affirmations and try to imbibe them and add them to their life with zest, for a positive change within them and around.

31 best affirmations to live by

Hello lovely people, I hope you are all happy and doing great in life. Today, I have come up with the best affirmations for you all, to add a tinch of self-love, motivation and positivity to your life. 

It's evident that, you all come across posts on quotations, one liners, reminders, life affirmations, while surfing the internet everyday. Some of you might be among those, who read these affirmations but don't imbibe them in their life and some of you might fall under the category of people, who read with an objective of imbibing them and assimilating the learnings of those affirmations, in their lives. 

Reading is great but only when it is done with an objective of deriving something good and positive from it and learning as much as you can from what you read.

Reading ---- Understanding and Imbibing ---- Take away from what is read ---- Put the learnings into action. 

Reading affirmations are meant to inspire us, and bring a positive change into our lives, with a zeal to achieve our dreams and goals and love our self more. 

We all come across situations and circumstances in our day to day lives, where we are often told to not think negative and stay positive. And you might have often heard great people talking about positive thinking and the impact of it on human nature and their lives. But ! But ! But !!! The idea is, to not stay supremely positive all the time, it's ok to feel negative sometimes because it's absolutely natural, because feelings are organic and they come naturally to each of us. 

But what is not ok is, to feel negative most of the time or all the time and look for negativity, even in the positive situations. Thinking and feeling negative all the time, will not just hinder your thought process but will also hamper your well-being and growth in life, because constant negative emotions and feelings will clobber positivity from your life. 

Don't let the negative thoughts wobble you from your goals and dreams, instead work towards converting those negative feelings into a little less negative initially and positive eventually. Trust me it works! I know it will take time, but it is totally worth every ounce of effort. Initially you might find it a little difficult but over a period of time, you will understand, that how a slight change in your thought process, just by shifting your focus on the positive outcomes, instead of the negative ones. You will see in a due course of time, your thought process will become much more positive and in the long run, it will evolve you into a positive thinker.  

A positive person is not someone, who has never come across a negative thought in their head or heart. Even a positive thinker might also think and feel a little less positive sometimes, but what's good about a person with a positive attitude is, they don't let the negative emotions overpower the positive ones, because they always strive for positivity and light, even in the most catastrophic conditions and darkest of nights. 

So, you have to understand that feelings, thoughts and emotions are natural, even if they are not the most favourable and convenient ones. You must know that - 

It's ok to not be ok sometimes.

It's ok to feel drained.

It's ok to be sad.

It's ok to have bad days. 

It's ok to feel lost. 

It's ok to cry.

But what's not ok is, to feel this way all the time and not do anything about it. Just sobbing and nagging over something won't work for you, you have to take an action and work towards overcoming the predicaments and shifting your focus towards the things that matters to you and brings you closer to you, your dreams and your mental peace.  Don't let the negative feelings, thoughts and emotions, overpower your sense of well-being, growth and tranquillity. 

Also, why do you have to waste your time ruminating over, what other people think of you, instead think over, what you think of yourself because that is a real question that you should ponder over. How you see yourself is the real game changer. Be good and right in the eyes of god and yourself and stop deteriorating your energy, thinking over other people's opinion of you because it a waste of time, and the sooner you will understand this, the better it will be for you. 

Isn't it true that we are all so caught up with our monotonous routine in our lives, that it has actually taken a toll over our health, both physical as well as mental. We have all become so driven by everything else in our lives, that we have started taking our health for granted, in spite of knowing that it isn't the right thing to do.

Well there are myriad options that we can adapt in our daily routine, in order to take care of our physical health, like - 

  • Yoga 
  • Walking 
  • Jogging
  • Cycling
  • Running 
  • Swimming
  • Working out at the gym 
  • Healthy eating and adopting a healthy lifestyle

And what about your mental health ? Who is going to take care of it ? Because taking care of both mental and physical health is equally important, and it is something that cannot be taken for granted, because you often tend to do so.

So I have come up with 31 best affirmations to live by, for you all which you can incorporate in your life and keep reminding them to yourself whenever you need to, because no one else is going to do that for you. 


> "I am worthy of everything that I wish for in life."

> "I am making my dreams come true."

> "I am not getting affected by other people's opinion of me."

> "I am loving myself."

> "I am not compromising with my dreams."

> "I am going to walk away from negative people and places."

> "I am not getting wobbled by other people's judgement."

> "I am working hard every single day, to fulfill my dreams."

> "I am not going to lose myself, in my journey of loving someone else."

> "I am staying away from people, who hamper my tranquillity."

> "I am not going to handover the keys to my happiness in somebody else's hand."

> "I am staying away from people who are trying to hamper my growth process."

> "I am valuable, I am important and no one can ever make me feel less of myself."

> "I am taking good care of myself."

> "I am discovering myself and becoming the best version of me."

> "I am overcoming all the hurdles coming my way."

> "I am always looking for a ray of sunshine, even after the darkest of nights."

> "I am never going to compare my life to someone else's."

> "I am making a beautiful life for myself because I deserve it."

> "I am the author of my life."

> "I am never going to give up in life, no matter what comes my way."

> "I am always looking for peace, even in the chaos of things." 

> "I am making myself and my passions a priority." 

> "I believe I am capable of achieving great things in life."

> "I know that god loves me and is watching over me."

> "I am walking away from anything that gives me bad vibes."

> "I am not going to lose myself."

> "I am kind to myself and I am giving myself what I need."

> "I accept and love myself as I am."

> "I am doing everything that makes me happy."

> "I am creating a life, I'm proud of."

I have written this post with a sole purpose of reminding you all, that you are magic and the powers that you have are solely yours, so don't let the magic within you fade away or die. Do what it takes to keep your magic alive and shine as bright as you can.

Keep reminding and keep repeating the following to yourself -

  • "I am worthy"
  • "I am strong"
  • "I am loved"
  • "I am enough"

I hope this post will help you look deep into yourself and find yourself again, if you have forgotten yourself in this journey and taken yourself for granted, because it's never too late to fall in love with yourself and rise in life by fulfilling your dreams and goals and doing what makes you happy. 

Thrive and prosper, beautiful humans!

And kindly add on to my list of affirmations, that you swear by in your life and do let me know in the comments below, how you like my post 31 best affirmations to live by.

Happy Reading !



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